Tuesday, May 30, 2023

Confessions of a Workaholic

Last week, I was feeling excited about my upcoming four-day weekend. My husband and I had plans to work on the house a little (it’s old and a fixer-upper), but I also had plans to write, read, and relax. No editing. No publishing. No book formatting No checking emails. Nada. Zip. ZERO WORK.

Friday arrived, and I had an amazing day. I had a few itches to check emails (and yes, I did check twice), but for the most part, I kept my phone aside and didn’t even open my laptop.

I did a little writing (my next book and some blog posts) on Saturday and Sunday, but by Sunday, I really wanted to get back to my editing jobs. (Confession: I DID do a little bit of editing Sunday!)

I love what I do. You may already know that I’m an editor and the owner and operator of Get It Write Publishing. Currently, I have a few books in the works for publishing, and I also have some editing jobs. So taking a four-day weekend and not touching my laptop is huge. My husband went on a road trip to Arizona in February, but I brought my iPad and worked here and there during the week we were gone. This weekend was not for work, but I did some anyway.

And that’s okay.

Someone recently said, “No one is ever going to completely love their job.” I beg to differ. I completely love what I do. I transitioned my editing business into a publishing business because of how much I love helping writers become published authors. Sure, I get frustrated (KDP and IngramSpark will bring on frustration in the calmest person), and sometimes I’m too hard on myself if I make a mistake (who doesn’t make mistakes?), but I love my job; I love what I do, and I do what I love. I’m grateful for that, and I'm thankful my husband supports me.

 

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Tuesday, May 23, 2023

Let's Talk Flowers

Spring is in full bloom in Upstate NY (frost be damned!). I love spring because of the flowers and the smell of…well, spring! You know, not just flowers but rain and warmer air. It’s just the spring smell.

My favorite flowers are roses. However, I also love lilacs and tulips. Lilacs smell AMAZING, and tulips make me happy. They just do! When I see them, I smile.

A longgggggggggggg time ago (I was in my late teens, I think), I had a beautiful rose bush that grew very tall with many roses. I was so proud of that. But I had to move and leave it behind. Since then, I have not been able to keep a rose bush alive. Sigh.

My in-laws and grandma have lilac trees at their homes, so thankfully, I can take some of theirs and put them in a vase at my house. I don’t want to plant a tree here since we would like to move soon.

And tulips? Well, I keep missing the dang time to plant them, apparently.

So! I live vicariously through those who can keep these gorgeous flowers alive!!

I do have one flower plant and one that sometimes flowers and something that looks like a mini palm tree, and I keep them nice and healthy!!



What are your favorite flowers? Do you grow them? I’d love to hear any tips you may have for keeping roses alive!

 

 

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Thursday, May 18, 2023

Downtime Is Important

If you don't think downtime is important - or don't think you have "time" for it - think again!! Downtime is VERY important. We all need some "me" time to relax, rest, and rejuvenate.

I know, I know…you don’t have the time to have “downtime,” or maybe you think you have too much of it already (in that case, rethink your life/schedule). Honestly, downtime can be 10 minutes. It doesn't have to be long. Just take SOME time out of each day (hopefully longer than 10 minutes or maybe two 10-minute intervals) and you will see a difference.

Downtime means "stopping production." That’s as simple as I can put it. We need to take time out for ourselves. Have some “me time.”

You may be thinking:

“Are you crazy? I work 8-10 hours a day, then go home to make dinner and have this and that and the other to do!!”

Or

“Hey, I have kids, and they have baseball or soccer practice. Plus laundry and all the other household chores I have.”

…or any other excuse you used to make. Hey, I don’t judge. I’ve been in that boat.

However, it is crucial that we get downtime. We must relax and rejuvenate. Anyone can do it. ANYONE!

Research has found that taking breaks can improve your mood, boost your performance, and increase your ability to concentrate and pay attention. Let’s not forget about those who struggle with “invisible illness” and NEED downtime so they don’t crash. It’s ok to say NO, whether you have an illness or not. Remember that!

So…how do we achieve downtime? We simply find something to do that relaxes us…or just take a nap.

A few ways you can achieve downtime:

1. Sit on your porch (if weather permits) with a glass of wine or mug of coffee or tea and just be.

2. Read a book.

3. Take a bath.

3. Walk your dog (if you have one) or take a walk alone. (Not a “power walk” but a stroll…stop and smell the flowers and enjoy your surroundings!!)

4. Bake (if that’s something relaxing for you).

5. Write in a journal.

6. Write a letter.

Just relax. Just be. Take deep breaths and ignore everything on your To-Do list and chill.

I love to relax. I was huge on saying, "I don't have time for downtime" because I have four cats and three dogs (my “fur babies”), a husband, a house to take care of (cleaning, etc.), and I own my own business. Oh yes, and I am a blogger and a published author. When do I have time to relax?? Where is my downtime?

I FIND time. I MAKE time. Though it may not be a lot of time, it’s just enough for me to rejuvenate.

My downtime includes:

~ Sitting outside on my back patio,

            ...with a glass of wine late afternoon/early evening, or

            ...with a mug of hot coffee in the morning or afternoon, or

            ...sometimes with a book and coffee or wine

I love to hear the birds chatting in the trees and watch them flit to the bird feeder in our yard.

~ Walking my dogs. This is done daily, but we take our time and enjoy the sounds of the morning.

~ Writing. Writing is relaxing for me. Typing this blog post right now is a form of relaxation. I don’t usually have to think; I just write!

~ Reading a book, whether curled up on the couch or sitting on my back porch or patio.

If you want to learn more about downtime, I found a great article called 5 Reasons Why Downtime Is Important. It was pretty interesting.

If you don’t allow yourself downtime/relaxation, you will soon enough crash and burn. At that point, you will not be good to anyone, especially yourself.

No excuses. Your kids and husband will understand. Your pets will understand. Turn your phone OFF, step away from the computer (unless you’re writing to relax), and CHILL!!

What do YOU do for downtime?

 

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